why cheat?
I've never cheated.
On a test I have and maybe even cheated people out of money but never in a relationship. When someone asked me today why my last relationship ended and I said lies and cheating he responded with "oh so you never cheated before" and my reply was "I sure haven't." He then went on to tell me that I wasn't telling the truth because everyone has cheated before.
Well I haven't.
I value the importance of a relationship and have enough respect for myself and the person that I am with, that if I feel the need to cheat then I know I need to reevaluate the relationship and see why I am still in it. If I still feel the need to be with someone else then I'm going leave the situation. I'm not going lead a double life and cheat and lie and be deceptive. So he then tells me that I mustbe the perfect girl then. I'm not perfect but I respect a relationship. I'm not trying to be messing with EVERYONE out there if I said I'm going to mess with one person. That makes no sense at all.
I know there are people that have never cheated before besides me. I can't be the only one lol. Even if you have before there are plenty of people that realize that it causes more hurt in the long run then those moments of satisfaction. Hell if you read my blog from around this time last year you will see the difference in my tone and the unhappiness that was there as a result of being cheated on.
It's a part of reality but why should it be. I guess maybe Im just tooo concerned with others feelings and emotions. Maybe what I'm looking for is too advanced. maybe I've been listening to kindred singing about "stars" too much
On a test I have and maybe even cheated people out of money but never in a relationship. When someone asked me today why my last relationship ended and I said lies and cheating he responded with "oh so you never cheated before" and my reply was "I sure haven't." He then went on to tell me that I wasn't telling the truth because everyone has cheated before.
Well I haven't.
I value the importance of a relationship and have enough respect for myself and the person that I am with, that if I feel the need to cheat then I know I need to reevaluate the relationship and see why I am still in it. If I still feel the need to be with someone else then I'm going leave the situation. I'm not going lead a double life and cheat and lie and be deceptive. So he then tells me that I mustbe the perfect girl then. I'm not perfect but I respect a relationship. I'm not trying to be messing with EVERYONE out there if I said I'm going to mess with one person. That makes no sense at all.
I know there are people that have never cheated before besides me. I can't be the only one lol. Even if you have before there are plenty of people that realize that it causes more hurt in the long run then those moments of satisfaction. Hell if you read my blog from around this time last year you will see the difference in my tone and the unhappiness that was there as a result of being cheated on.
It's a part of reality but why should it be. I guess maybe Im just tooo concerned with others feelings and emotions. Maybe what I'm looking for is too advanced. maybe I've been listening to kindred singing about "stars" too much
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