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Being single isn't all that bad. I mean I've been single for a minute so it's a way of life for me. But I guess I don't understand people that just can't be alone. How do you get to know yourself, how do you have time to reflect??? It's really not all that bad not being in a serious relationship

On another note. Why do all these dudes come out the woodworks when I'm really just trying to chill. I mean seriously in the past week I've talk to 2 skeletons and one guy I didn't think knew I existed and they are coming with A game. Only thing is I like being single (well playing the field). Is that so wrong?

Restaurant week is a wonderful thing. A full dinner in some of DC's finest spots for $30.05 fantabulous. I wonder where we are eating tonight :)

I really hate my commute to work... but what I hated more was not having a job so I guess I have to suck it up and take that long ass drive everyday

I'm so happy. tomorrow is payday. My account was depleted due to the we dding. Now my check is allllllllll mine.

My homie Nina (who used visit my blog but she up and got married AND moved she's forgotten me *sobs* lol) sent me a nice "care/sorry I missed your birthday in June package" in the mail yesterday (she thinks she's my momma). But anyway in that package she sent me some candles that just smelled so seductive. I mean seriously those candles are the isht. Last night I took a bath and had them lit with Raheem playing and it was perfection. So I looked them up today online in case I needed to replenish one day and do you know that little ass candle was $52.00 and she sent me two. I've done some crazy stuff but $52 on a candle never that lol. But nonetheless best candle I've ever had.

Speaking of spending large amounts of money on stuff that isn't needed someone stop me from buying this bag I saw today. I'm not even going to show you the bag or link it because if someone says ooh thats cute I may just go and buy it and I know I could spend the money elsewhere. But man I really want that bag, I can even picture me holding it with a particular outfit on *holds head in shame*

I'm not materialistic I swear. I just like shopping. What I also like is when random people email me to say they like my writing. That means a lot to me. I'm not making a request for random folks to email me but I always appreciate those that do... it makes my corny self smile.

I think I've said it on here a million times in the past month how much I love my friends but seriously I do. Only a friend would run into your ex, figure out how to work you into the convo, tell him how great you are without him and make him feel like such an asshole that he emails you to tell that he bumped into her and he wants to apologize for being such a loser lol. I love love love my girls.

My protoge is turning nine Saturday and her most favorite aunt (that being me) is chaperoning a party that will have 20 eight and nine year olds making pottery. please pray for me yall